Seeing the world from the dog’s viewpoint
Some of the things that a child might want to do with a dog may be seen as a threat even if the child is trying to be friendly.
Consider the following situations:
- The child wants to cuddle the cute dog with the big wide eyes
- The child wants to take the dog’s toy away from it so they can play a game
- The child wants to get into the bed with the dog
- The child goes to comfort the dog that is hiding under the table
Rules when we are out and about:
- Always ask before approaching any dog. Ask the owner where on the body to stroke the dog.
- Never touch a dog that is left alone outside a shop or similar situation
- Don’t enter a garden if a dog is loose, even if you know it
- Never run or shout around a dog. Always walk past calmly.
- Do not hug a dog. How would you feel if a stranger hugged you?
So how should we behave around dogs?
Always be calm, quiet and move slowly around pets.
When meeting a dog:
- Think. Always take a moment to decide if you really need to stroke the dog. Remember they may be busy playing with their owner, having a bad day or happy going about their business. Follow our three Cs of Canine Choice.
- Check. Always ask the owner if it’s OK to stroke the dog. If the owner isn’t around – perhaps the dog is tied up outside a shop, or is a little bit further behind the dog on a walk – don’t approach the dog or say hello until you’ve spoken to the owner and they have given you permission to do so.
- Call. Call the dog to you by patting your legs gently and saying “hello”. This gives the dog a choice in whether they want to be stroked or not.
- Count. If the dog comes over to you, you can stroke their shoulder nearest to you (but don’t lean over the dog). Count three strokes on their shoulder and then stop, giving the dog the choice to move away if they wish.
- Tip: Even if the owner has said it’s ok to say hello, remember to check the dog’s body language is happy and relaxed before you go ahead. If the dog doesn’t come over to you, that’s ok too. Don’t take it personally. Respect their choice and move away.
- However much you’d like to, don’t hug the dog. While hugging is a sign of affection for humans, holding a dog close to you tends to make them feel threatened and worried.
- If the dog turns or moves away from you, they’re telling you they’d rather you didn’t stroke them just now, so it’s time to stop
- Listen to the dog’s owner. They know their dog best and know where their pet does and doesn’t like to be petted. They can also tell you when the dog has had enough.
- Always be calm, quiet and move slowly around pets
- If the dog is off the lead playing, then it is best to leave them to enjoy what they're doing
If a strange dog runs up to you or if the dog you are visiting is very excited to see you:
- Stand still
- Make no noise
- If you are carrying food or toys, drop them away from you
- Fold your arms
- Look away from the dog
- Move away slowly. Never run.
- This will make you very boring to the dog and help him to calm down
If you are knocked to the ground:
- Roll up into a ball with your face to the ground
- Make no sound
- Cover your face with your hands
Establish house rules:
The aim of these rules is to keep the children safe. It is important that all members of the household and all visitors stick to these rules.Children need to be supervised when they are around dogs.
To stay safe they should not approach when the dog:
- is eating
- has a toy
- has puppies
- is sleeping
- is in bed or under a chair or table
- is sick or injured
- trying to move away
Have clear rules about where dogs are allowed:
- Every member of the household should train, groom and feed your dog
- Do not allow chase games or wrestling games between children and your dog. Your dog may become too excited and hurt someone.
- Never sneak up and surprise a dog
- Do not allow anyone to tease a dog
- Never hit or hurt a dog
- Never allow the dog to mouth your skin or clothes. Your dog must never think that it is OK to touch your skin or clothes with his teeth.